On dates now, I don’t know how much to reveal about my past.  I don’t want the dates to be about Danielle, but this is what’s happening in my life right now.  It’s hard to think about much else, so I’m focused on this.  So when conversations come up, I bring it up and what date wants to hear that.  I have to stop revealing too much too soon.  I can just respond to things and not be dishonest, but not reveal unless I have to.