I’m the only person that I know that has had their spouse come out.  I thought it was a rare thing.  That’s not the case.  I found a Facebook group called Straight Book that is for people who’s spouses have come out.  There are almost two-thousand members so it shows that this isn’t an only me thing.  I’ve found some really good people on there and it’s been a great site where I can vent by telling the people who understand what I’m going through.  So many of my friends say get over it.  Or they’re excited for my future.  Or they say I’m a catch.  I appreciate that they’re trying to help me, but I don’t really want to hear this and the StraightBookers understand.